helllooooo!! It’s me, Heidi, owner of Dirty Girl Coaching and this is my first official BLOG POST! Hot Damn!
I thought perhaps I should write a bit about how I got here. Here being, the owner of a relationship and life coaching practice and an honest to goodness entrepreneur! It all started about 3 1/2 years ago. I was in NYC visiting my old friend, Tim. There I was, picture it, sprawled on his couch, drinking his expensive wine, sniffling about yet another failed romantic relationship. This one was a gem. I’d plunged in head first, heart open, eyes apparently blinded by the copious, ginormous, red flags billowing before them. Yep. Crash and burn. With my self esteem taking the brunt of the impact. The wine and the change of scene in NYC provided a flash of clarity… I was the common denominator. It was crystal clear that I was settling, repeatedly, for the same douche baggery. WHOA.
Tim had been working with a coach for a while and at the time was enrolled in Accomplishment Coaching’s leadership and life coach training program. I’d noticed a massive transformation in who he was. Our 15 year friendship had grown massively wider and deeper since he’d begun working with a coach so when he said to me, “what do you think about doing some work with a life coach?” my response was, “yeah, I think it’s time.” Within 15 minutes he had me on the phone with a coach in his training program. Within two weeks I was signing a contract and forking over a terrifyingly substantial amount of moolah to work with said coach and from that point on life got completely different.
I spent 18 months working with that coach before enrolling in the same leadership and life coaching training program to become a coach! I started out creating a relationship project. The end goal… get a ring on it! While there currently still isn’t a ring on it, I’m now fully aware of the man I’m looking for. More importantly, I’m fully aware of who I am in this world. I know parts of myself that I had no idea existed! From rage and hate to kink and the divine and all kinds of juicy stuff in between. I know me. I’ve also created rock solid support systems to ensure I can continue heading down this road and I don’t have to do it alone! I’ve got to tell you… the process to get here, the consistent support that working with a coach provided was worth every damn penny. EVERY. DAMN. PENNY.
I still work with a coach! I don’t have it all figured out. I think when we get it all figured out we’re dead! EEEK! So I’m no where near having it all figured out BUT! I’m further ahead than I was 3 years ago!
If this blog post resonates with you, please reach out! The right coach can help you change your life. No shit!
xoxo
Heidi
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